yourlocalbeautysupply

yourlocalbeautysupply:

andyoushouldfeelbad:

randomthoughtsanddaydreams:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

frolosopher:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

inspiremeplz-:

The businesses that are being looted by the people who “have every right to fight back”? Their insurance doesn’t cover this. Business insurance doesn’t cover this. Their livelihoods are being smashed, and the police aren’t even allowed to interfere— because of all of you highly intelligent…

Shut the FUCK UP BECKY. WHEN YOUR FAMILY GETS KILLED FOR BEING UNARMED AND WHITE, THEN YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH, EXCEPT FOR DONT. KEEP YOUR GODDAMN VICTIM BLAMING ASS OUT THE MIKE BROWN AND FERGUSON TAGS, HOW DARE YOU????

YOU KNOW WHAT **YOURE** NOT BEING TOLD IS THAT THERES A GROUP OF IGNORANT ASS WHITE PEOPLE STARTING THE ACTUAL VIOLENCE AND RIOTING THAT YOURE HARPING ON ABOUT, WHICH HAS BEEN REPORTED BY WESLEY LOWERY AND PICTURES HAVE BEEN TAKEN OF THEM. YOU GODDAMN HONKIES I SWEAR, YOU DONT HAVE TO FIGHT FOR HUMAN RIGHTS IN THIS COUNTRY, SO SIT THE FUCK BACK AND SHUT UP WHEN ALL THE BROWN FOLK HAVE TO.

This needs to be taken down a few pegs. 
No one really listens when yelling is all that happened.

IT shouldn’t be hard to rebuttal their points, and allow them to learn what they did wrong.

Shut the hell UP with your tone policing negropean ass. Because my ~yelling~ made Becky deactivate and THAT MAKES **MY** MONDAY!

People think being nice changes shit
It fucking doesn’t
It allows people to come back and hurt you and take advantage and oppress
Not until you put your foot down to motherfuckers start to listen
Fuck that “please don’t yell” shit
You don’t listen to people start yelling

It is super fun when children who know nothing about civil rights say shit like this.

You have no idea what you’re talking about.  Sit down and let the grown-ups affect change that comes from rational discussion and finding common ground.  Throwing temper tantrums is what “doesn’t change shit”….well, except obviously you were raised by someone who DID give in to your temper tantrums.  The rest of the world doesn’t have to put up with your bullshit even if your mommy still loves you.

Wtf are you even talking about? As long as someone has the upper hand they could give two shits if you “throw temper tantrums” or not. Only difference is if you whisper they won’t listen and if you roar they’ll make you out to be a beast. There is no winning.

So if the people are mad and decide to let out their anger then who tf are you to tell them they have no right to do so, and that they should sit down and raise their hand if they have a question?

Another person with zero reading comprehension.  When did I say people have no right to be mad and let out their anger?  Never.   People have the right to act however they want.  If you think acting like an asshole is going to change the world though (as the person I responded to does), you’re flat out wrong. 

You said it yourself.  If you whisper, they don’t hear you.  If you yell, they don’t listen.  The people who make real change are the ones who speak and listen and create dialog.  Susan B Anthony didn’t smash windows for women’s suffrage.  Martin Luther King, Jr. didn’t blow up buildings for civil rights. 

I’m simply sick of children who haven’t lived through the civil rights movement telling other people to “shut up” because these kids know what works and what doesn’t (and they’re flat out wrong). 

I have no doubt you won’t understand this either.  It is obviously WAY above the heads of the average tumblr user.  You’ll no doubt think I’m attacking you and that I support oppression.  Carry on.

randomthoughtsanddaydreams

randomthoughtsanddaydreams:

andyoushouldfeelbad:

randomthoughtsanddaydreams:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

frolosopher:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

inspiremeplz-:

The businesses that are being looted by the people who “have every right to fight back”? Their insurance doesn’t cover this. Business insurance doesn’t cover this. Their livelihoods are being smashed, and the police aren’t even allowed to interfere— because of all of you highly intelligent…

Shut the FUCK UP BECKY. WHEN YOUR FAMILY GETS KILLED FOR BEING UNARMED AND WHITE, THEN YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH, EXCEPT FOR DONT. KEEP YOUR GODDAMN VICTIM BLAMING ASS OUT THE MIKE BROWN AND FERGUSON TAGS, HOW DARE YOU????

YOU KNOW WHAT **YOURE** NOT BEING TOLD IS THAT THERES A GROUP OF IGNORANT ASS WHITE PEOPLE STARTING THE ACTUAL VIOLENCE AND RIOTING THAT YOURE HARPING ON ABOUT, WHICH HAS BEEN REPORTED BY WESLEY LOWERY AND PICTURES HAVE BEEN TAKEN OF THEM. YOU GODDAMN HONKIES I SWEAR, YOU DONT HAVE TO FIGHT FOR HUMAN RIGHTS IN THIS COUNTRY, SO SIT THE FUCK BACK AND SHUT UP WHEN ALL THE BROWN FOLK HAVE TO.

This needs to be taken down a few pegs. 
No one really listens when yelling is all that happened.

IT shouldn’t be hard to rebuttal their points, and allow them to learn what they did wrong.

Shut the hell UP with your tone policing negropean ass. Because my ~yelling~ made Becky deactivate and THAT MAKES **MY** MONDAY!

People think being nice changes shit
It fucking doesn’t
It allows people to come back and hurt you and take advantage and oppress
Not until you put your foot down to motherfuckers start to listen
Fuck that “please don’t yell” shit
You don’t listen to people start yelling

It is super fun when children who know nothing about civil rights say shit like this.

You have no idea what you’re talking about.  Sit down and let the grown-ups affect change that comes from rational discussion and finding common ground.  Throwing temper tantrums is what “doesn’t change shit”….well, except obviously you were raised by someone who DID give in to your temper tantrums.  The rest of the world doesn’t have to put up with your bullshit even if your mommy still loves you.

Wow you dot know who I am or who raised me so you can stfu bought that
You don’t know shit about civil rights if you think rational discussions work
The kkk doesn’t do rational the neo nazis don’t do rational
The us govt doesn’t even do rational discussions so how the hell are you gonna preach that when it doesn’t fucking work
Martin Luther king jr
Malcolm x
Gandhi
Jesus Christ
Medgar Evans
All these men spoke and spoke and were still murdered
Talking about temper tantrums no fuck no. Look at your history years and years of oppression trying to be nice and talk it out. No not until we treat others the way we’ve been treated do they understand and recognize.
GTFO of here with that appeasement shit
It worked great for Poland and England right??

Further proof that you have no idea what you’re talking about.  Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Malcom X….these are all people who did create very real change in the world - and they didn’t do it by telling everyone else to shut up.  Jesus Christ…I can’t even believe you used him as an example of how NOT to change the world.  It isn’t even debatable that he had a massive effect on humanity as a whole.

Your temper tantrum just continues and shows that you’re clueless about civil rights.  I still have hope that someday you’ll realize acting like an asshole doesn’t actually change anything.  

randomthoughtsanddaydreams

randomthoughtsanddaydreams:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

frolosopher:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

inspiremeplz-:

The businesses that are being looted by the people who “have every right to fight back”? Their insurance doesn’t cover this. Business insurance doesn’t cover this. Their livelihoods are being smashed, and the police aren’t even allowed to interfere— because of all of you highly intelligent…

Shut the FUCK UP BECKY. WHEN YOUR FAMILY GETS KILLED FOR BEING UNARMED AND WHITE, THEN YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH, EXCEPT FOR DONT. KEEP YOUR GODDAMN VICTIM BLAMING ASS OUT THE MIKE BROWN AND FERGUSON TAGS, HOW DARE YOU????

YOU KNOW WHAT **YOURE** NOT BEING TOLD IS THAT THERES A GROUP OF IGNORANT ASS WHITE PEOPLE STARTING THE ACTUAL VIOLENCE AND RIOTING THAT YOURE HARPING ON ABOUT, WHICH HAS BEEN REPORTED BY WESLEY LOWERY AND PICTURES HAVE BEEN TAKEN OF THEM. YOU GODDAMN HONKIES I SWEAR, YOU DONT HAVE TO FIGHT FOR HUMAN RIGHTS IN THIS COUNTRY, SO SIT THE FUCK BACK AND SHUT UP WHEN ALL THE BROWN FOLK HAVE TO.

This needs to be taken down a few pegs. 
No one really listens when yelling is all that happened.

IT shouldn’t be hard to rebuttal their points, and allow them to learn what they did wrong.

Shut the hell UP with your tone policing negropean ass. Because my ~yelling~ made Becky deactivate and THAT MAKES **MY** MONDAY!

People think being nice changes shit
It fucking doesn’t
It allows people to come back and hurt you and take advantage and oppress
Not until you put your foot down to motherfuckers start to listen
Fuck that “please don’t yell” shit
You don’t listen to people start yelling

It is super fun when children who know nothing about civil rights say shit like this.

You have no idea what you’re talking about.  Sit down and let the grown-ups affect change that comes from rational discussion and finding common ground.  Throwing temper tantrums is what “doesn’t change shit”….well, except obviously you were raised by someone who DID give in to your temper tantrums.  The rest of the world doesn’t have to put up with your bullshit even if your mommy still loves you.

mariahsea

mariahsea:

Victim blaming and rape culture is so ingrained that nascar drivers are now going to be penalized for getting out of their crashed or flaming cars on the track because Kevin Ward Jr got hit by Tony Stewart. The patriarchy is ridiculous.

Yeah…if you walk onto an active racetrack, or into a live firing range, or onto a busy highway during rush hour, you’re damn right I’m going to blame the victim.  You are responsible for not doing stupid shit.

Yes, dying sucks, but walking onto an active race track at night wearing an all black suit was stupid as fuck.  I hope it was worth it to get to angrily point at a few people.

thisisthinprivilege

Dating as a larger fat

thisisthinprivilege:

I don’t know if this has been talked about or not. After being different sizes, I’ve noticed that when I was a smaller fat, I was able to attract men who actually wanted to date me and be seen with me. Now, I still never got a lot of dates, but guys would at least acknowledge that I was a “woman”. Now that I am a larger fat, I am completely ignored by men. They won’t even look at me. I actually feel like I am a man instead of a woman. I don’t get it. I am the same person as I was before. Why does weight dictate the way men interact with me? I’ve also noticed that if you are a PoC and a larger fat, you are out of luck. In my experience, it seems like if I was white and a larger fat, it would be easier for me to get into a relationship. It seems to be more accepted to be a larger fat white woman than a PoC who is a larger fat. I don’t want to offend anyone, so I apologize if I said anything offensive. I’m just frustrated as hell because I am gonna be a 30 year old soon. I have tried everything to be seen and visible and nothing works. I am starting to believe my love life is cursed because I cannot attract a man period. I really don’t know what to do, it just feels better to get this off my chest.

Granted - it sucks to be unwanted/undesirable, but:

I have tried everything to be seen and visible and nothing works.

Really?  You’ve tried everything?  You said yourself that when you were smaller you were able to attract men, so I’m going to go out on a limb and say you haven’t tried EVERYTHING.

You can only control your own feelings towards your body.  If you’re happy with your body that is fantastic and I commend you.  However, you don’t have a right to other peoples’ sexual attraction - they are free to be attracted (or not attracted) to anyone they choose. 

It sounds like you already know what the answer is when you decide your own body positivity doesn’t outweigh the lack of positivity from third parties.

aforeyou

aforeyou:

If you disrespect women in any way, I will disrespect you in the form of cutting off your dick

Gotta love the reasonableness of Tumblr feminists. 

Do you know the reason people saying this shit are always teenagers? It is because they need mommy and daddy to be paying for internet service.  Adults who see “cutting off your dick” as a reasonable response to “disrespect” tend to not be able to hold a job and they disappear off of the internet forever.  Good riddance.

deathnoteremake

helldiva:

karenstarrs:

  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS AS FATHERS
  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS UP AT 3AM BOTTLE FEEDING THE BABY
  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS FALLING ASLEEP WITH THE BABY IN THEIR ARMS BECAUSE NEITHER HAVE SLEPT ALL NIGHT
  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS MAKING FACES AT THEIR BABY TO MAKE THEM LAUGH
  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS GIVING PIGGYBACK RIDES
  • ALL YOUR FAVORITE MALE CHARACTERS AS FATHERS

this post is annoying as hell you don’t need to act like being a father is some kind of knightly heroic act while being a mother is the norm. you dont need to give fathers special attention

I constantly see Tumblrinas complain about men not being able to talk about any issue without making it about themselves.  The hypocrisy is delicious.

anti-feminism-pro-equality
You are not stupid….wait…yes you are.
I know that language is difficult for some people to understand, but when we say that someone is black, we don’t actually mean that they ARE the color black.  We fully understand that they are a person with darker skin/pigmentation. When we say someone “is studying”, we don’t mean that they’re actually an abstract concept.  
Words are hard, but if you try, you’ll start to understand them.

You are not stupid….wait…yes you are.

I know that language is difficult for some people to understand, but when we say that someone is black, we don’t actually mean that they ARE the color black.  We fully understand that they are a person with darker skin/pigmentation. When we say someone “is studying”, we don’t mean that they’re actually an abstract concept. 

Words are hard, but if you try, you’ll start to understand them.